Washington, Martha, 1731-1802

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Martha Dandridge Custis Washington was the first First Lady of the United States. Washington is not only remembered as the nation’s first lady who set an example for her future first ladies, but also as a wife, mother, and property owner. She is an example of strength during the Revolutionary War, and as the first lady of a new nation.

Born at Virginia’s Chestnut Grove Plantation located in New Kent County, Virginia on June 2, 1731, she was the eldest of eight children born to John and Frances Dandridge. On May 15, 1750, she married 38-year-old Daniel Parke Custis. Together they had four children. However, only two, John (called Jack) and Martha (called Patsy), survived past childhood. When her husband died in 1757, he left a large inheritance to Martha, making her wealthy—something that was less likely to be true a century later. This inheritance included 17,500 acres of land and 300 enslaved people.

Martha met George Washington in 1758. Washington owned Mount Vernon plantation and was the commander of the Virginia forces during the French and Indian War. Ten months after meeting, they married and she and her two surviving children moved into Mount Vernon. Because her husband was often travelling on military and business matters, Martha Washington was the effective manager of the household. She spent every winter in military encampments with General Washington during the Revolutionary War, making socks for the soldiers and raising money for other supplies.

The Revolutionary War ended in 1783 and General Washington returned to Mount Vernon. Both George and Martha were looking forward to a quiet retirement at their beloved home. The country, however, had other plans and George Washington became the new nation’s first president in 1789. “Lady Washington” moved with her husband to New York City, the nation’s first capital city. In an attempt to be accessible to the public, she held Friday evening receptions called “levees.” These levees were open to both men and women and followed European traditions of holding court while also serving as an example of social etiquette for every first lady to follow. The following year, the Washington’s moved to the new capital city: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

The Washingtons returned to Mount Vernon in 1797, after the inauguration of John Adams as president. George Washington died just two years later in 1799. In the President’s will, he stated that his 160 enslaved people be freed upon Martha’s death. However, Martha became fearful for her safety, so she freed her late husband’s enslaved people about a year after his death.

Martha Dandridge Custis Washington died May 22, 1802.

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referencedIn Collection of papers related to the will of Martha Washington, 1905-1931 (bulk 1914-1915). Pierpont Morgan Library.
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referencedIn Lady Washington's lamentation : manuscript, 1823 Apr Houghton Library
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associatedWith Bassett, Anna Maria Dandridge, 1739-1777 person
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associatedWith Chase, Salmon P., (Salmon Portland), 1808-1873 person
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spouseOf Custis, Daniel Parke, 1711-1757. person
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associatedWith Custis, Frances Parke, 1685-ca.1715. person
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associatedWith Custis, John Parke, 1754-1781. person
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Place Name Admin Code Country
Mount Vernon VA US
New York City NY US
Chestnut Grove VA US
Valley Forge PA US
Richmond VA US
Mount Vernon VA US
Philadelphia PA US
Subject
Home economics
Presidents' spouses
Slaves
Women
Occupation
Presidents' spouses
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Person

Birth 1731-06-13

Death 1802-05-22

Female

Americans

English

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